Dear sister

And so I ask you to unlearn. I ask you to stand up and tell the world that you are a slave to nothing—not to fashion, not to beauty, not to men. You are a slave to God and God alone. I ask you to tell the world that you’re not here to please men with your body; You’re here to please God. So to those who mean well and wish to ‘liberate’ you, just smile and say: “Thanks, but no thanks.” 

p/s: This is from one of people that inspired me.  I love her .  May Allah bless you.

Be the one

Dear my friend,

Jika kamu mengimpikan suami seperti Saidina Ali, perbaikilah dirimu menjadi seperti Saidatina Fatimah.

This lovely advice was given to me by one of my best friends. She wrote on a piece of paper and stick it on my board. 

A good woman for a good man. Putera agama hanya untuk puteri agama.

p/s: Stalk his blog. You would be amaze with his writing plus his drawing.

CAUTION! Trap of the DEVIL

Have you ever feel that you are not the right person to give advice to people?
Layakkah aku nak bagi tazkirah?
Layakkah aku nak cakap tentang ayat Al-Quran dan sunnah nabi?
Ilmu didada pun tak cukup, diri sendiri pun tak betul nak bagi nasihat kat orang lain.

Tahukah anda itu semua bisikan syaitan kepada kita. Untuk ape? Untuk menggagalkan umat islam dari saling mengingatkan antara satu sama lain. Untuk menggagalkan usaha dakwah kecil kita.

Ingatkah kita pada ajaran our beloved prophet Muhammad s.aw:
"Sampaikan daripadaku walaupun satu ayat." (Riwayat Bukhari)

Mungkin sekarang kita tidak se alim seperti alim ulama, masih banyak yang perlu diperbetulkan.
Iman masih lagi goyah. Tetapi, fitrah hati itu memang suka kepada kebaikan.
Every time we say something good to others, our ears hear it. It touch our hearts. Remind yourself as well as  others. That's what Islam teach us. Brotherhood,sisterhood. Every single person has their own stage in correcting themselves.
Allah had mention in Quran:

"Dan baikilah (dengan sebaik-baiknya segala usaha) perbuatan kamu, sesungguhnya Allah mengasihi orang yang berusaha memperbaiki amalannya." (al-Baqarah 2;195)

p/s: I found this in SOLUSI volume 38. It worth to buy it.

How you react upon disagreement?

Where should I start first ek? Today, I had spent my time reading the magazine named SOLUSI. Lama sungguh rasanya tak baca. This time the main topic entitled " Syurga itu Benar". I read during a programmed I attended this morning. Because I am not really interested in that program, then I decided to spend with my SOLUSI.

During that programme, I personally disagree with the speaker's speech. It was more like a talk actually. But,I just kept my mouth shut and continue reading. Mengutuk didalam hati saja.huhu. Then, when I keep reading it, I found one hadith that really match with my situation right now.

Rasulullah pernah bersabda yang bermaksud : "Sesiapa yang percaya kepada Allah dan hari akhirat hendaklah dia berkata baik ataupun diam."

Masya Allah, Rasulullah had left us with so many advice and guidance, but sometimes we just ignore it, and maybe hesitant to follow it.  During the programme, the reason why I just keep quiet is I remember when I  watch this dai' in the youtube, he had mentioned about one of our scholar (if I'm not mistaken,sorry I have short term memory). He do not agree with another scholar's opinion and what he do? He did not trying to debate or criticize  the other scholar, but he just keep quiet.

We live in a world with other people that absolutely has their own perspective, opinion. Accept the difference and react appropriately. We may disagree with our friend opinion, but how to react? Rasulullah had teach us, Allah had mentioned in the Quran. Let makes Islam as our way of life. the only way.

Am I?

Alhamdulilah. Today, all things run smoothly. Our group presentation got the highest mark although there are too many question to be answered AND the questions are ask directly to me since the questions are related with my part. Alhamdulilah again, I able to answer all of the question.Honestly,  I don't know how suddenly all the ideas came to my mind. Its all because of HIM. Thank you Allah.

Alhamdulilah again when I found that my carry marks for mid term exam,assignment and report is quite good. I never suspect to get that kind of marks. I do the assignment last minute, study last minute for the midterm paper and same goes with the report. Thank you Allah. But, I start to ponder with all this hikmah and rezeki, is it a istidraj for me? I do less effort but I get all these rezeki.

What is istidraj?

Rasullulah s.a.w. bersabda :" Apabila kamu melihat bahawa Allah Taala memberikan nikmat kepada hambanya yang selalu membuat maksiat (durhaka), ketahuilah bahawa orang itu telah diistidrajkan oleh Allah SWT ". 

(Diriwayatkan oleh At-Tabrani, Ahmad dan Al-Baihaqi).

Ya Allah, selamatkanlah aku dari istidraj. Lindungilah aku, hambamu yang selalu alpa dan lalai ini.

Sometimes it last in love but sometimes....

Recently, I had fall in love with Adele's song; Someone like you..I hear the song every day,every single free time I had and keep repeating the song until I don't know how many time exactly I hear her song. I got so in touch with the lyric especially with the chorus part.

Never mind I'll find someone like you

I wish nothing but the best for you too

Don't forget me

I begged
 I remember you said

Sometimes it last in love but sometimes it hurts instead.

Is all about a love between a girl and a boy. Her ex BF had married already with other girl. Lesson from this song are:

- Let bygones be bygones

-If you truly love someone, you'll always pray for the best for him/her. Don't hold a grudge.

- "Sometimes it last in love but sometimes it hurts instead" So true! 

-Love between human may break your heart sometimes but in love with Allah and Prophet will never break your heart dear..

-Love our Creator not the creation. 

p/s: Reminder for myself and my dearies reader :)

Forgive me

Kadang -kadang bila bergurau senda dgn kawan-kawan, disebabkan terlalu asyik bergurau atau pun dah selalu sangat bergurau..kita tak sedar yang gurauan kita da melampau such as we making fun of her or him in front of other people. Paling dahsyatnye, bila it becomes our habit yg memang da macam sebati dgn diri kita. Tiap kali jumpa je, we do the same thing. do it again and again until at one point our friend,dah tak boleh sabar dipermainkan macam tu. ha! bila dah kene sembur, baru tersedar. Ya Allah, what have I done? I hurt my friend's  heart. Don't wait too long to apologize when we do mistakes and never repeat the mistakes again. A good friend will say bad thing about you in front of you (face to face) just to make you realize your mistake but fake friend talk behind you.